Winner vs Loser

The winner always has a program;

The loser always has an excuse.

The winner always says "Let me do it for you."

The loser says "That is not my job."

The winner always sees an answer in every problem;

The loser sees a problem for every answer.

The winner says "It may be difficult, but it's possible."

The loser says "It may be possible but it may be too difficult."

When a winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong."

When a loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

A winner makes commitments;

A loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;

Losers have schemes.

Winners say, "I must do something."

Losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see the possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win;

Losers believe for them to win, someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy;

- -  "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you."

Losers follow the philosophy,

 - - "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Dear Friends, let's be the winner together.

<Sean>